Feb 07, 2014

Becoming a single parent isn't easy. You're used to your spouse pitching in, even if it's just as simple as helping with the kids. Maybe you didn't want the divorce and you weren't ready for the struggles of single parenting. Here are a few tips to help you make the transition from co-parenting to single parenting.

Employ Help

In some circumstances, you won't have any financial issues. Maybe you already make plenty of money or you're getting enough child and spousal support that you don't need to worry. If this is the case, finding a trusted nanny and/or babysitter can really help.

You still deserve to have a life, even if you don't need to work or you only work part time. Getting a break from the kids is important and eventually, you may even want to start dating again. Finding a nanny and a good babysitter can make it possible for you to enjoy a little adult time, when necessary.

Organization is Key

The more organized you are, the easier single parenting will be. Creating shopping lists, chore lists and a calendar of all the things you kids do, can help you stay on top of everything.

Help from the Kids

Your children, depending on their age, can help out with chores and other things around the home. You may need to ask them to help out with things they didn't have to help with before. This can lead to wonderful moments with your kids, too. You can let them help with dinner and eventually, they actually cook a meal occasionally to help out.

Set Boundaries

Both your kids and your ex-spouse need boundaries. You have to set specific boundaries with your kids to make sure they don't take advantage. This will help the house run smoothly.

These tips, along with many others will help you make the transition without too many bumps in the road.