Oct 03, 2014

Divorce is never an easy thing for a couple to go through. It is typically the result of problems in a marriage that can’t be resolved. Almost half of marriages end in divorce but some couples struggle with knowing if divorce is the right answer for them. While it could introduce more problems to an already stressful situation, couples have to weigh the pros and cons of a divorce. Here is what to consider if you are trying to decide on divorce.

The Benefits of Divorce

Many look at divorce as beneficial because you can become free from an emotionally trying situation. It can release you from strain which may result in a healthier and more rewarding life either alone or with someone else. If you are in a violent situation, divorce is a very common and suggested solution.

Other benefits of divorce include:

• One spouse is controlling, calls names, and bullies so the divorce would offer peace from that
• One spouse feels sex is more important than the other spouse so the freedom of divorce allows each to find someone that feels the same as them
• If one spouse is cheating, many find divorce to be beneficial
• When a couple has different expectations of marriage, divorce allows you to find someone that thinks more like yourself

The Cons of Divorce

While we’ve discussed the benefits of divorce, there are quite a few cons. It can hurt your children and make them feel that there is no security. It will also change your relationship with your friends and family because typically friends and family will take sides by choosing one spouse over the other. There will be loss of some friendships and family relationships.

Other downfalls of divorce include:

• Finances will take a hit because there may be child support or spousal support being paid or a decrease in income as a single person
• It takes years to recover from the emotional pain of the divorce because of detaching oneself from a way of life

While divorce is not for everyone, it may be the best solution for some couples. Make sure you take the time to consider both the pros and cons of divorce before making your final decision.